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Misraq wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 19:04

As if you are treated better in your country Eritrea. I am sure you have relatives in Sudan, Uganda, Kenya and Ethiopia all of them praying hard to get to U.S.

'It would have been better if they'd killed me': A forgotten war destroying women's lives

17 hours ago

BBC World Service

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2p8 ... owned&s=09


Klawe Rzeczy

Warning: This report contains descriptions of rape and sexual violence. Names of victims have been changed and identifying details omitted to protect their privacy and safety.

Enat was at home with her eight-year-old niece when the soldiers came one Sunday morning, she says.

The Ethiopian army was carrying out searches of homes in the Amhara region on 5 January this year, as part of a crackdown on a growing rebellion launched by local militias known as Fano.

Enat says three men, dressed in army uniform, entered her home in South Gondar and began asking questions about her family background and whether Fano fighters had visited the beer hall where she worked.

Enat, 21, said they had.

How could we lie? How can we hide the truth?

Enat says, noting that Fano - an Amharic word loosely translated as volunteer fighters - is made up of locals.

Things quickly escalated.

After asking questions about her family background, Enat says the soldiers began insulting her, then threatened her niece with a gun when the little girl started crying.

Enat says one of the soldiers then raped her in front of her niece while the others kept guard.

I begged them not to hurt me. I called on the saints and begged them. But their hearts didn't pity me. They violated me.

Thousands of reports of rape and assault

Enat, who is from the Amhara ethnic group, the second largest in Ethiopia, is among thousands of women believed to have been sexually assaulted and raped since the conflict between the Ethiopian army and Fano started in August 2023.

Sexual violence in the region is largely undocumented, but the BBC has collated data which shows there have been thousands of reports of rape between July 2023 and May 2025, with victims as young as eight and as old as 65.

While restrictions have prevented independent media from entering Amhara to cover the conflict, the BBC team in Nairobi, in neighbouring Kenya, managed to speak to women and doctors in the region, offering a rare insight into the human impact of the crisis.

The conflict began when the government attempted to disband regional military groups, including those in Amhara, which had fought with the army during the 2020-2022 civil war in the next-door region of Tigray.

Fano militias felt betrayed by the move and believed it would leave them vulnerable to attack from Tigray and elsewhere, especially as violence against the Amhara community had intensified, according to rights groups.

In response, Fano launched a rebellion, seizing major towns. They claim to be fighting for regional autonomy and protecting their communities from marginalisation by the Ethiopian government.

The insurgency has resulted in a violent crackdown by the army, which calls Fano

radical ethno-nationalists.

Klawe Rzeczy

Since the conflict started, both sides have been accused of numerous human rights abuses, including extrajudicial killings, arbitrary detentions, forced displacement, destruction of property, looting and widespread cases of sexual violence, including rape.

Rights groups, including Amnesty International, say there is evidence the army is disproportionately responsible for the abuses. They also say that Amhara people in other parts of Ethiopia have been deliberately targeted by the security forces and other armed groups.

Before she was attacked, Enat had never had sex and planned to one day marry at her local church in a ceremony conducted in accordance with the Ethiopian Orthodox Church's rites, just as other women in her family had done.

Such marriages are among the most revered traditions of the Amhara people, who are predominantly Orthodox Christian, but it requires couples to remain "pure" and not have any sexual contact until marriage.

Before that day, I had never known a man,

she says.

It would have been better if they had killed me.

'My family found me unconscious'

Tigist, 18, from West Gojjam, also in the Amhara region, worked in her family's small, traditional teahouse before she was attacked.

She describes how, in January 2024, a soldier who was a regular customer groped her. She says she rejected him - an act she believes led to the attack.

Later that evening, as she was returning home from work, she says three soldiers, including the man who groped her, ambushed her in the street and gang-raped her on the pavement.

My family found me unconscious on the roadside,

she recalls.

They carried me to the clinic, where I spent five days.

Since the attack, Tigist says she's been unable to leave her house, paralysed by fear of men and the outside world.

My fear keeps me from going to work... Whenever I see soldiers or any men I panic and hide myself away.

She ended up retreating from her life and breaking off her engagement. She says she never told her fiance why or what happened.

Overwhelmed by despair, Tigist attempted to take her own life, but her family intervened just in time and saved her. She says that although she has contemplated suicide since then, she has promised her family she will not try to kill herself again.

'It is repulsive to have been born a woman'

The BBC collected data from 43 health facilities in Amhara - roughly 4% of all health facilities in the region - and other medical sources to get a snapshot of what has been happening.

At these facilities, there were 2,697 reports of rape between 18 July 2023 and May 2025. Children under 18 accounted for 45% of cases.

Just over half of the victims tested positive for sexually transmitted infections (STIs), while many were also left pregnant and with severe psychological trauma.

However, many victims of sexual violence never report the crime or seek treatment, fearful of stigma or of learning they may have contracted an STI or become pregnant.

For this reason, a senior health expert, who spoke to the BBC on condition of anonymity due to security concerns, says the victims who come to facilities in the Amhara region are only

the tip of the iceberg.

Lemlem is among those who have never reported their rape or sought medical treatment, terrified of learning that she might have a sexually transmitted infection, such as HIV.

The 23-year-old from South Gondar says government soldiers entered her house on 6 January to ask for information, a routine army practice.

She says when she didn't give them what they wanted, one of the soldiers raped her.

He threatened me, saying: 'If you scream, one bullet is enough for you,'

Lemlem says.

I wept non-stop for a whole month. I couldn't eat. All I did was cry. I couldn't stand to walk. And I fell gravely ill.

She says the assault has driven her away from church, where she fears she may be the subject of gossip.

It's repulsive to have been born a woman. If I were a man, they might have beaten me and walked away - they wouldn't have destroyed my life like this,

says Lemlem, explaining how the trauma of the attack has made her feel about being female.


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Medics the BBC spoke to say there has been a sharp rise in the number of victims of sexual violence that they have been treating since the conflict began.

They arrive trembling, too intimidated even to speak,

one medic says.

Yet those who do come forward are reluctant to name their attackers and rarely seek justice, in part because the conflict has led to a breakdown in law and order. Instead, most who do seek medical assistance come out of fear of pregnancy.

Others seek treatment long after they have been attacked, by which point certain medications for the STIs they have contracted, such as HIV, are no longer effective.

HIV can often be prevented with a treatment called post-exposure prophylaxis, but only if it is administered soon after sex with someone who was infected.

Another medic notes that many victims say they are unable to access treatment promptly due to transport disruption and road blockages caused by the conflict.

A senior medic warns they fear a public health and social crisis could be looming.

Based on information health centres have gathered, they say that they

have identified signs that HIV infections may rise and that mental health and psychological problems could reach catastrophic levels,

noting that some victims have attempted suicide.

Figures from Ethiopia's health ministry in 2022 showed that the HIV rate in the region was around 1.1 per 100 people - higher than the national average.

While assaults have been carried out by both sides in the conflict, medical staff report seeing more cases involving Ethiopian army soldiers than Fano militia. A government employee with access to relevant information, who agreed to speak on condition of anonymity, also said this was the case.

Most incidents of rape were reported in urban areas where the army maintains bases and exerts control, however experts point out that people living in cities have better access to treatment so are more likely to get help and report attacks.

The BBC was unable to interview any victims of assaults by Fano fighters due to limited access to places where the militia are based.



In June 2024, the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights reported that the Ethiopian National Defence Force, which includes the army, had perpetrated sexual violence, including against minors, in the Amhara region during the conflict with Fano militia.

The BBC asked Ethiopia's ministry of defence to respond to allegations, but despite months of waiting, we have not received a reply.

Repeated BBC requests for detailed information from regional authorities were also unsuccessful.

A Fano leader, Asres Mare Damtie, told the BBC the group was unaware of any involvement by its fighters, saying no accusations had been made against them and it enforces severe punishment, including death, for offenders.

The BBC has learned that a government-commissioned investigation led by Ethiopia's Bahir Dar University into conflict-related sexual violence against women in Amhara has begun, with findings expected to be released publicly in the coming months.

In 2021, when the army and its allies - which then included Fano - faced similar allegations over their conduct in the Tigray conflict, the government condemned the use of rape but dismissed the claims as

biased and flawed.

To date, no official action has been publicly disclosed against perpetrators.

Amnesty International has raised concerns over what it believes is a persistent pattern of impunity in Ethiopia's army.

There is no meaningful effort to bring perpetrators into justice,

says the organisation's regional researcher, Haimanot Ashenafi.

They're still fighting, they are still out there with no consequences for what they've done… survivors who have gone through this life-changing experience deserve justice.

For Enat, the consequences of her attack have been far-reaching.

A month after the assault, she fled her village to escape the trauma of the attack.

It was then she learned she was pregnant as a result of the rape.

I started vomiting,

she recalls.

She thought of having an abortion, which is legally permitted in Ethiopia up to 12 weeks into pregnancy if a woman is raped, but she was scared.

I feared God, and I felt for my mother. What would become of her if I died during the abortion?

She gave birth to a daughter in early September after three days of labour.

Despite what happened to her, Enat considers the baby a

gift from God.

But she is currently living with a relative and is unable to work as she has to look after her daughter. She worries for the future and how she will provide for her child and herself.

If this is what is considered to be living, then yes, I am living,

she adds.

If you, or someone you know, have been affected by the issues raised in this story, details of organisations offering information and support are available at BBC ActionLine. https://www.bbc.co.uk/actionline/

Zmeselo wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 19:05

What do you know how I'm treated in my country, you slût?

Misraq wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 19:04

As if you are treated better in your country Eritrea. I am sure you have relatives in Sudan, Uganda, Kenya and Ethiopia all of them praying hard to get to U.S.

Selam/ wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:03

ሲጀመር አንተ አሜሪካን ሳታውቃት ማን ውደዳት ብሎ አስገደደህ? ለወደፊቱ ያለ ምንም ቅድሚያ ዕውቀት የትኛውንም ህዝብ በጭፍኑ አትውደድ ወይንም አትጥላ።

በነገራችን ላይ ዘሜ ድሮ ድሮ ፎቶሽን ትለጥፊ ነበር። ፊልሙ ኤክስፓየር አደረገብሽ እንዴ?

Odie wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:09

Good bless USA God’s own country. There may be some challenges but not the kind of challenges you meet in dusty villege Eritrea or fractured Ethiopia. USA is one of the only few countries that let your mouth can poooopp (the right to free speech!) at will including on this forum and giving you opportunities.
What is posted here is ridiculous. To understand military rules you have to be a military person. There are rules you can’t break as a soldier which you submit to when you sign to be a soldier. For example everybody must have meningitis jab because they at risk of outbreak as they live in large number if they don’t get the jab. Otherwise to have a jab or avoid as a civil is your right in that country. Personal right for most part is protected and it is a country that is a yardstick to personal right.
Can you enlighten us what laws exist in Sawwa and how sawa kids are treated? The rabbit Eritrea always tries to size up itself with elephant countries and throw insults on others-one reason why Eritrea became a forgotten place in the world because it is a hypocrite. The only time Eritrea remembered is when there is animosity with Ethiopia!

Zmeselo wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:31

I didn't say the people, weyzero. I said, the country (system)!

That poor boy in the video, is part of the people.

Selam/ wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:03

ሲጀመር አንተ አሜሪካን ሳታውቃት ማን ውደዳት ብሎ አስገደደህ? ለወደፊቱ ያለ ምንም ቅድሚያ ዕውቀት የትኛውንም ህዝብ በጭፍኑ አትውደድ ወይንም አትጥላ።

በነገራችን ላይ ዘሜ ድሮ ድሮ ፎቶሽን ትለጥፊ ነበር። ፊልሙ ኤክስፓየር አደረገብሽ እንዴ?

Zmeselo wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:37

Stûpid, this is about the untested mRNA jab. What about bodily autonomy. He doesn't want to take the jab, send him home. If the US didn't continually preach about how great it is, I wouldn't mind much about this. "Land of the free", my behind.

I'm sure worse things happen in other countries, but none of them brag about their "greatness" as the US does incessantly.

But my way of thinking is way above your pay grade.

Odie wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 20:09

Good bless USA God’s own country. There may be some challenges but not the kind of challenges you meet in dusty villege Eritrea or fractured Ethiopia. USA is one of the only few countries that let your mouth can poooopp (the right to free speech!) at will including on this forum and giving you opportunities.
What is posted here is ridiculous. To understand military rules you have to be a military person. There are rules you can’t break as a soldier which you submit to when you sign to be a soldier. For example everybody must have meningitis jab because they at risk of outbreak as they live in large number if they don’t get the jab. Otherwise to have a jab or avoid as a civil is your right in that country. Personal right for most part is protected and it is a country that is a yardstick to personal right.
Can you enlighten us what laws exist in Sawwa and how sawa kids are treated? The rabbit Eritrea always tries to size up itself with elephant countries and throw insults on others-one reason why Eritrea became a forgotten place in the world because it is a hypocrite. The only time Eritrea remembered is when there is animosity with Ethiopia!

Fiyameta wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 22:04

You cannot hate an entire country for the actions of the few. We have more good people than bad in the US.

Unfortunately, almaze/Misraq is one of the few bad ones.

Fiyameta wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 22:04

You cannot hate an entire country for the actions of the few. We have more good people than bad in the US.

Unfortunately, almaze/Misraq is one of the few bad ones.

Misraq wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 23:40

Fiyameta wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 22:04

You cannot hate an entire country for the actions of the few. We have more good people than bad in the US.

Unfortunately, almaze/Misraq is one of the few bad ones.

Fiyameta qintrela is right. She is out of cadre . We Ethiopians appreciate U.S

The more I learn about the US, the more I hate it!

Fed_Up wrote: ↑

22 Nov 2025, 10:11

Misraq wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 23:40

Fiyameta wrote: ↑

21 Nov 2025, 22:04

You cannot hate an entire country for the actions of the few. We have more good people than bad in the US.

Unfortunately, almaze/Misraq is one of the few bad ones.

Fiyameta qintrela is right. She is out of cadre . We Ethiopians appreciate U.S

አገው አገው እምሶ,
ወደሽ ነው...ስንዴ እና ድጎማ የአሜሪካ ዶላር አንቺን ብቻ ሳይሆን አገርቤት የቀሩ ዘመዶችሽ ጭምር የአይዋ በቆሎ ካልሞጆሩ አንድ ሌሊት አያድሩም:: ኤርትራውያን ብንሰደድ በዛች ዝርፍጥ ለማኝ አገር ምክንያት ነው:: ጌቶችሽን ማመስገን ግዴታሽ ነው:: ንገሩኝ ባይ ለማኝ ዋሒድ

Fendadaw

You Eritreans are leeches. The only way you don't trash talk the country that host you is when they threatened you. For instance, I have seen many videos made by Ugandans about Skunni Eritreans life in Uganda. Those bantu won't flinch if they see any disrespect of their country so you behave . You have that collective awareness to lay low and use flowery words praising and appreciating Ugandans in public such as YouTube Videos. In a closed door, we all know how you insult and trash talk them

You as a leech also trash talk U.S. the land you live freely and equally with the hosting population. But as ungrateful as you are, you are badmouthing them here. You leeches badmouth Ethiopia the same way. The solution is to take a hard measure like the bantus and whip your tiny arse with a stick. That is the way to straighten you. You are Barya people and typical of a Barya. You need such corrective measures

Zmeselo wrote: ↑

22 Nov 2025, 08:54

The title I gave this thread is a bit misleading,