Ignore here
Narcissists main goal is to control and scare you. They use bullying to have power over others. Bullies usually struggle with their own life because their abusive behavior makes it hard for them to have good relationships. Narcissists are filled with self-hate, and they take it out on those close to them. Being angry is one way they control others. It scares you and makes them feel in charge.
When your abuser is mad at you, it helps them deal with their emotions. It makes you focus on them instead of yourself, draining your energy. Their anger chips away at your self-worth and confidence, making you feel confused and trapped emotionally. It steals your peace of mind, and you spend energy trying to figure out what you did wrong. Their anger keeps you curious and uneasy, so you end up following them into a confusing situation.
Why they're mad at you isn't really about you. It's more about their own problems and struggles inside them. Narcissists use defense mechanisms to handle their shame, insecurity, and low self-esteem. They depend on others to make them feel important and boost their confidence. They're almost always angry, or about to be, many times without good reasons.....
Re: Rising above Narcissist AbyssiniaLady
You and the monkey Odie keep saying to others to ignore AbyssiniaLady, yet you're the only ones on this forum blabbering on about her every single day and no one else.
Learn how to practice what you're preaching to others.
Learn how to practice what you're preaching to others.
Re: Rising above Narcissist AbyssiniaLady
Leech! Even saying 'ignore here' upsets your camel milk filled stomach. When will we be right and you will be happy is a nightmare. So unpredictable narcissists!